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Indian Celebrity Weddings

shilpz — Thu, 11 Aug 2011 19:18:00 +0000

Tips for slecting right life partner ?????

shilpz — Wed, 13 Jul 2011 19:04:09 +0000

How do you choose someone with whom you can continue to grow, laugh, be surprised, and share your interests and ideas year after year?How do you choose someone with whom you can continue to grow, laugh, be surprised, and share your interests and ideas year after year?

1 Why you want to get married .

2. What i m looking in my partner

3. Talking to family n friends

4. While meeting with your would be life partner never be alone

5. When you talk to would be life partner, talk as u dealing with your business.

6.Take into concetration when to say yes

7. Avoid any rumour about your prospective partner:

8. Last but not least, don’t imitate of your friends or relatives

Getting the Love Back in Your Marriage?

shilpz — Wed, 23 Jun 2010 12:00:19 +0000

A great relationship requires intimate moments. And those moments need your full attention and compassion. If something else is engrossing your mind, then your spouse will not get the attention they deserve. Your spouse deserves to be treated with kindness and forgiveness everyday, not just when you feel like it.

Be expressive with your feelings to get the passion back in your marriage. Even if you’ve been married for years now, there is no rule or law prohibiting you to display your emotions and feelings to your spouse. Do not always assume that your spouse already know that you love him or her. You still need to express your love in words and in deeds. Say I love you, bring her flowers, cook his favorite dish, bathe together, and walk holding hands in the park. These are simple and yet heart warming expression of love that you can do to get the passion back in your marriage. Those acts and words of love is an assurance that you still love your spouse up to this moment.

Give one another space. If it seems like your love needs to have some time, by all means, give it to her. Take the kids for a few hours, and give her that time. Let her take a long bath, or go for a walk alone. Maybe she just needs to sit and read for an hour or so. Respecting the need for privacy and peace is all a part of being in a healthy relationship. Your love will emerge from her temporary hiatus refreshed and happy, ready to spend time with you and your family.

live happily

Marriage problems

shilpz — Wed, 23 Jun 2010 11:45:21 +0000

Everyday there are people who give up on their marriages instead of trying to find the help needed to solve their problems.

Even so, research shows that most couples wait six years from the first signs of problems before they try to find help. During those years the problems become progressively worse.

Problems in marriage affect every aspect of your life. It’s hard to concentrate at work, it’s hard to act carefree around your children, and it’s hard to put on a happy face with friends and relatives when you are unhappy and frustrated with your mate

so mantra for a successful married life is to sit n talk and discuss and give heavy blow to ego .

Porm dresses&Wedding gowns

shilpz — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 14:24:17 +0000

How can you find the perfect prom dress, wedding gowns that will make you stand out in a crowd? When it comes to prom, some things are predictable. Gorgeous dresses, flower corsages and up-dos. This year’s prom trends, however, are anything but predictable. Begin your search for your prom dress or wedding dresses early. You may not have a date yet, but you will want to start looking at fashion magazines and stores as early as three to four months before your prom.

Here are some online services available which can help you to find out your dream outfit for your biggest day. But if you are looking out for affordable prom dresses then it might be a little different.

You must have look to prom dresses 2010 on www.promgirl.net.for wedding dresses www.morilee.com.There is something left which will make your boy count your prom dress as most stylish one. Thus choose one which suits your body shape at its best.

There is something left which will make your boy count your prom dress as most stylish one. Thus choose one which suits your body shape at its best.How can you find the perfect prom dress, wedding gowns that will make you stand out in a crowd? When it comes to prom, some things are predictable. gorgeous dresses, flower corsages and up-dos. This year’s prom trends, however, are anything but predictable.Begin your search for your prom dress or wedding dresss early. You may not have a date yet, but you will want to start looking at fashion magazines and stores as early as three to four months before your prom.

Here are some online services available which can help you to find out your dream outfit for your biggest day.But if you are looking out for affordable prom dresses then it might be a little different.

you must have look to prom dresses 2010 on www.promgirl.net.for wedding dresses www.morilee.com

there is something left which will make your boy count your prom dress as most stylish one. Thus choose one which suits your body shape at its best.

Jewelry gifts for your spouse

shilpz — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:59:48 +0000

Women are always adore and love their jewelry gifts and here vintage jewelry provide you with the best types of jewelry collections which your loved one will surely like it could be anything from bracelets, diamond necklace sets,vintage pendants designer ear rings and elegant piece of vintage rings which will surely suit your criteria for anniversary jewelry gifts.

You can also gift your beloved with stylish pendants with their names engraved on the pendant that can be poosible with vintage jewelry.

Beach wedding

shilpz — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 09:03:43 +0000

A beach theme wedding can certainly be a lot of fun. It’s an opportunity to take advantage of the romance of the oceanand the fun of the sandy shores.Start with your i nvitations. A sea-shell shaped invitation or one that shows sea scenes will set the stage early for your beach theme.

A beach is one of the most exotic and beautiful places that comes to our mind when we think about venues for weddings. Planning a wedding on a beach is one of the most passionate ways of expressing your love and engaging in a commitment – that you will always be there for each other. Whether it’s a sunrise or a sunset, beach weddings always create a magnificent atmosphere. The sounds of the waves and the soft and gentle breeze creates a romantic scenario where two souls exchange vows with love and sincerity in their hearts. One of the best things about these weddings is that you can save the decoration expenses, as this nature’s gift will always be admired and appreciated by your guests. To take care of every aspect of the wedding preparations, the best option is booking a resort package or hiring a local wedding planner. Beach weddings are cherished by everyone. Without being tensed about the preparations, the couple should enjoy each and every moment of their wedding day, this will mark the start of a joyful new beginning and endless happiness in their lives.

How to read the signs of a lying partner???

shilpz — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 09:38:57 +0000

Are you being lied to?

First thing’s first . . .listen to your instincts!

Knowing whether you are being lied to or not, does not require mind reading or psychic power. Understanding the difference between the truth and a lie can all be determined by a person�s behavior, and if you pay attention to these behaviors, you will be able to have a better idea of whether you are being lied to or not. The most important thing you should always remember to do however is to trust your instincts. If you feel you are not getting the entire truth from your partner for some reason, then listen to your instincts. Most people are in good touch with their instincts, but rather not listen to that inner voice because they refuse to believe that their partnersigns of lying would deceive them in any way. Staying in touch with your instincts will help guide you in the right direction.

Though instincts are a great help, they can be tricky. Majority of the times, your instincts will not lie to you, but there are times when your instincts can be influenced by your fears and insecurities. For example, you may already have fears of being cheated on, therefore you may feel that your partner is lying to you and cheating on you, when in fact he or she may be telling you the truth and completely faithful to you. This is why it is essential to understand the behavior of a liar, so that you can define the difference between really catching on to a liar, or just being paranoid that your partner is lying to.

Watch the Body Language

One important thing to remember is that the body never lies. If there are changes in the way your partner moves (or does not movie) his/her arms, hands, head and the way his/her eyes shift, then you are most likely being lied to. The reason the body language changes when a person is lying is because the person now has to think of a way to seem convincing that he/she is telling the truth. Since he/she knows that whatever they are telling you is a lie, the behavior automatically changes because they are now trying to act truthful, instead of actually being truthful. One big sign to look out for is in the eyes. If your partner avoids eye contact with you, then he/she is lying to you. There is a fear that you will see through him or her if there is eye contact, so eye contact will be avoided. Whether you realize it or not, your body also communicates when you talk. When you are enthusiastic about telling your partner something and are telling the truth, you will move your hands around and will look into his/her eyes to make a connection. If your partner is lying however, he or she will tense up, will most likely tone down on the hand movement and eye connection and will seem different than other times. If your partner is the type to still move his/her hands around even when he/she is lying, then pay attention to the timing of the movements. Timing is everything and can define the difference between the truth and a lie. When a person is telling the truth for example, his/her hands (and whatever body movement he/she does) will move at the same time when telling you something. When he/she is lying however, the body language will be off and will usually come shortly after he/she has told you the lie. This is because they have to think about acting natural, and this thinking causes them to be off key.

Last but not Least: Clearing of the throat, touching him or herself often and saying “Umm”

Another sign of a lying partner is if he/she touch his/her nose or face a lot while talking to you. They will feel nervous about telling you lies and will want to occupy their hands somehow as a way to cover up their lie, such as touching the nose, rubbing their eyes and so on. Your partner may even clear his or her throat more than usual when talking to you, look away a lot and/or say �umm� a lot when lying to you. They are using these as time killers so they can think of how to tell you the lie in the most convincing way possible. These are just some of the signs of a lying partner and are the most common signs. Remember, it is always important to trust your instincts first. If you feel that your partner is lying to you, start paying closer attention to his/her behavior and if there are any changes, then you will be able to catch on to the lies better and can further investigate from that point. Receive Love Advice and Professional Help.

Muslim Wedding

veronica — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 19:14:19 +0000

Although many Muslims stage a multiday celebration to mark a wedding, the traditional marriage ritual itself, called a nikah in Arabic, is simple and brief. It generally follows these steps:

At the wedding, which can take place pretty much anywhere, the bride and groom are separated in different rooms. They may or may not be able to see each other, depending on how conservative the families are.

An officiant, who can be any man familiar with Islamic law, heads to each room separately. There he asks the spouses-to-be if they consent to the marriage and if they are marrying of their own free will (a representative called a wali answers the officiant’s questions on the bride’s behalf).

The couple signs the marriage contract or license, with witnesses observing.

The officiant brings the pair together and pronounces them husband and wife.

A Muslim Wedding Celebration

Days of lively parties often surround the nikah, and that’s just what Shaila Khan plans for her wedding. In her Pakistani culture, Khan explains, marriage becomes a big issue once a girl hits post-college age, and women are often expected to wed within their own ethnicity. Khan’s Mr. Right happens to be from Pakistan, and she admits that his background helps prevent conflict. “It’s nice to have someone understand who I am and where I come from,” says Khan, a New York investment analyst in her mid-20s. “And I don’t have to worry about my family accepting him.” Though far from a typical South Asian, Khan now finds herself looking forward to a typical Pakistani wedding, featuring a week of singing and dancing, including the following events:

Dholki: The wedding celebrations begin with the dholki (named after the dholk, or drum) one to two weeks before the actual three-day wedding ceremony. During this event, young guests sing and dance while beating on the dholk.

The bride and groom traditionally hold their own dholki. Friends and family gather at their respective houses to practice songs and dances for the upcoming mehendi ceremony during the week of the wedding. “There’s usually a whole week of back-to-back dholkis before a wedding. I’ve had so much fun attending them in the past,” Khan says. “It’s just an excuse to get together with friends and family to dance.” The women closest to either the bride or groom usually choreograph the dances, and it’s mostly women who perform. The couple’s families prepare dinner for the revelers, and the party goes late.

Mehendi: The mehendi ceremony takes place on the first night of the three-day wedding. Usually the most festive part of the event, it’s filled with noise and color, with women dressed in bright formal shalwar kameez outfits and saris, and with unmarried girls sporting long skirts and blouse outfits called lehengas. The mehendi can either be held separately for the bride and groom or jointly. A joint mehendi lends to friendly guy/girl competition while each side takes turns to outdo the other. In more conservative families, the women are kept separated from the men.

The bride traditionally wears a formal yellow outfit, and, as the name of the ceremony implies, has wet mehendi (henna paint) applied on her hands that day. “The bride, along with all the women on both sides of the family, has henna designs put on her hands and sometimes her feet,” Khan says. “It’s basically a bridal shower, but a lot more colorful. It’s definitely my favorite part of the wedding festival and I plan on having a lot of fun on mine.”

It’s customary for the bride to be escorted onto the stage under a yellow color dupata, or large scarf, held up by six female relatives or friends. Her head is covered and bowed, and she doesn’t have much makeup or jewelry on at this event. In joint mehendi ceremonies the groom arrives at the ceremony after the bride with his entourage of guests, called the baraat. The baraat typically plays loud songs while entering the ceremony hall and is greeted by two parallel lines of the bride’s family and friends.

Nikah: The main wedding day is less eventful than the preceding days. The bride typically wears a bright-red ghaagra, a heavily pleated skirt with a long blouse embroidered in gold. The dupata is hung low over her bowed head and wrapped around her shoulders in such a way that her heavy gold jewelry is not hidden. This outfit is the most elaborate of all the ones the bride will wear. “With all the gold the bride wears on her wedding day, she looks and feels like a queen,” Khan says.

Grooms either wear a traditional sherwani with a turban or a Western-style suit. Some grooms wear a veil of roses on their head before the bride enters. As a game, sometimes the bride’s young female relatives and friends will steal the groom’s shoes, returning them only when the groom pays a bargained amount of money. At the end of the night, a procession escorts the couple to the wedding car and throws flower petals on the couple.

Valima: The groom’s family hosts the valima, or the feast, the night after the wedding. The feast signifies the consummation of the wedding, and is roughly equivalent to an American wedding reception. “Pakistani food is very rich and heavy, so that truly makes for a real feast,” Khan says.

TOP ROMANTIC GIFTS

shilpz — Mon, 30 Mar 2009 18:39:20 +0000

Chocolate

Rich, decadent chocolate is an irresistible aphrodisiac. Truly considered a romantic treat, chocolate evokes thoughts of delicious, fulfilling experiences. Since it comes in many forms from liquid to solid, your options for using chocolate as a sensual prop are only limited by your creativity

flowers

There are many occasions where giving your partner flowers is the perfect mode of expression. Sometimes though, the regular bouquet seems a like a cookie cutter romantic idea. To help break the mold try one of these reader’s creative ideas for giving flowers!

Pillowcase MessagesIf you’re apart from your significant other for any length of time, you start searching for ways to keep the memory of your relationship foremost in your partner’s mind. What better way than on a custom pillowcase? Each night, they’ll be reminded of you and your affection. There are many ways to create a custom pillowcase…and they are ALL extremely easy.

Give The Gift Of Time

How much time have you spent with your partner lately? Not sitting on the sofa watching TV or over dinner, but real one-on-one time. It’s amazing how much a little “private” time can help improve even the best of relationships. In the spirit of the quote by Torquato Tasso, “Any time not spent on love is wasted,” I implore you to give your partner the most precious gifts of all… your time. Just in case ideas seem to be lacking on how to give your time, I’ve come up with a few suggestions: