When barat reach wedding venues, the bride’s close relatives give a warm welcome to the groom and his relatives with flower garlands. Rose water is sprinkled on them. In the milni ceremony, the girl’s relatives give shagun to the groom’s close relatives. It is done in the descending order, beginning from the elder most. Cash and clothes are gifted.beginning with his grandfather, father, uncles and brothers,mothers n sister perform this ceremony after this milni ceremony bride sister and friends welcome groom with flowers n groom give gift or cash to his siter in law then groom is allowed to entered.
1) flower -to shower on relative
2) rose water -to spring
3)flower garlands- to perform ceremony
4)gift or cash
After groom is ready in his ethnic wear or modern, sehrabandi ceremony take place at his place .were all the invites and family member come together to celebrate this ceremony .this ceremony held few hours before the marriage.A puja is performed. Thereafter, the groom’s father or al elderly relative ties the “sehra” on the to be groom’s head. he boy also wears a pink color turban, which is touched by all invites. His sehra is blessed by the relatives .now a days groom wear sehra according to their dress .one guy who is care take of groom traditionally called as sarbala sit with groom in whole ceremony. After the completion of Sehrabandi ceremony, all those who witness the function give gifts and cash to the groomIt is said that the tying of sehra confers the status of Vishnu (the creator) on the groom. The baraat (groom’s wedding party) then sets out for the bride’s place
Now huge variety of sehra are available in the market .groom can choose according to his dress color .
to know more watch this video
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In this ritual bride-has to stay at home in her old clothes for a couple of days before her wedding. All the shopping of marriage is done week before the marriage because bride is not suppose to went out 4 or 5 days before marriage as per Indian tradition, She must sit in the vicinity of four lit diyas or oil lamps so that the glow from them is reflected on her face
The Ghara Ghardoli ritual involves the groom’s sister-in-law along with other female relatives going to a nearby temple to fill up a earthen pitcher with water that the bride will use during his bath.. Closed relatives accompany the family member to the temple and dance on the beat of dhol . Before her bath, vatna or uptan (a paste of powdered turmeric and mustard oil) is applied on her body by female relatives and friends. The uptan is believed to have purifying. Both, the ghara ghardoli and the vatna ceremonies are also performed for the groom at his house. Here the decorated pitcher of water (ghadoli) is brought for his bath by his bhabi (elder brother’s wife).the old garment of bride n groom is given away to a poor person according to tradition
1)bride not supposed to went out of house 6 days before marriage .
2)bride n groom supposed to take bath from pitcher water from temple
3)old garment are given to poor people
4)seven married women apply upatn to bride as the blessing
5)bride must sit in vacinity of four diyas for glow.
6)puja thali with four diyas.diyas are blow by bride
7)groom elder sister in law fills water
uptan or turmeric paste
9) good dhol wala
These pre marriage events are memorable. Traditionally bachelor party is something involving activities beyond usual like drinking, gambling.These special wedding events provide a chance for the youngsters in the family to have fun, good stag parties are those which stand higher in the memories of everyone even of the groom than his wedding day. Exact quantity of adventure, fun and competition make excellent stag parties.
The Bachelor Party is essentially a stag party hosted by the bridegroom on the eve of the wedding. During this party the groom is expected to enjoy his last night as a bachelor Bachelor’s Party is basically just an excuse to have fun where unmarried family members and friends of the groom/ bride make merry all night.
Bachelor party now a days is family affair were all family member and friends are invited to dance n drink n have fun together .This gathering mainly consist of guys but now a days girl are being part of bachelor party in India good, D.J’s,jugglers and food caterers that would make your special wedding events even more memorable. Young girl and guys dance night away.
A bachelor’s party should be organized in such a way that it becomes more of an enjoyment than a responsibility. Bachelor party must be planned 3 days before wedding in order to over come hangover so to feel n look fresh on wedding day. The one last night of “freedom” with close pals is something any guy would wish for.
1) Event
Make sure you plan the event well in advance so as to avoid last moment confusions
2) Venue & date
Make sure your party venue n date is planned in advance
3) Budget n invites
First of all decide the budget, number of invitees to your bachelor night
4) 3 or 4 days before wedding
Avoid keeping the party just a day before the wedding. You wouldn’t want to get late on your own wedding or worse, miss it altogether. If the wedding is scheduled on a Saturday, keep the bachelor’s party on a Thursday. That way, you get a day off to relax, take control and get rid of that hangover!
5) Food
Food n drinks should be well organized for bachelor night
6) Rocking music
Make sure you book good dj which rock the party
7) Dress code
Using some theme and funny dress code can also be entertaining for stag nights.
Party decoration
The bachelor’s party is a very important event in the life of a man. Before stepping into his married life, the guy is allowed one last night of indulgence and pleasure. The celebration is one that is remembered for the entire life.
9) Young girls
Girls sure know how to have fun and when it comes to having a party, nothing can dampen their spirits. If you think girls can only talk about make-up and at the most give each other a makeover in parties think again!
10) Party invitation
For any party, a proper invitation is very important, though it may not seem so for a bachelor’s party.
on my wedding bachelor party we called up jugglers to perform its an good and unique idea check it out.
Roka ceremony is held at bride place or place arranged by bride parents now a days this ceremony is not held in homes rather people celebrate roka ceremony as this ceremony is very first event of marriage. This ceremony is held after match making by the pundit .matchmaking is done in order to know compatibility between both the mates. Matchmaking among Punjabi’s involves looking into the caste and descent of the prospective boy or the girl. Punjabi’s marry their daughter and son within the community only. Once matchmaking is done roka ceremony is arranged n after that marriage date is fixed.
Roka ceremony can be celebrated on large scale or small scale depending upon budget .Bride and groom are dress up with nice ethnic wear now a days roka ceremony is celebrated in this way like dj party is arranged and all friends n family member dance and enjoy delicious food of ceremony through out night .
Roka signifies that the boy and the girl are affianced to each other. An auspicious day for the marriage is fixed after the Roka ceremony.
Let this ring be a symbol of my promises to you and a reminder of my devotion to you. I am honored to call you my (wife/husband).
Ring Ceremony is one of the vital Pre-Wedding Ceremonies. Which is held day or 2 days before wedding. ring ceremony is also know as as engagement, Mangni and sagaii in some other parts of the country. Tradition and rituals are still alive in India arrange marriages are still common in India. Traditionally parents would choose their children’s partner to ensure their wealth would stay within the same caste or to form alliances with another religion and were sometimes determined at birth. in this ceremony groom and bride exchange there rings as symbol of love n devotion . This is the main charm of Indian weddings. Herein lies the essence of Indian customs and traditions. Extremely ritualistic, Indian Hindu Marriages are still following the Vedic rites and Purana Philosophy.
The family members and relatives of bride and groom meet on this ring ceremony. The bride and the groom are laden with gifts, jewellery and clothes from each other’s family. They also receive gifts from the other guests. Often the bride’s family bears the expenses of the ceremony. The groom’s side also receives gifts from the bride’s side for the prominent family members, like the mother father, brother and sister of the groom. This gift includes clothes jewelry and other accessories. Dowry in India is given by parents of bride to groom as symbol of blessings. Dowry includes all the household items like (bed, TV, refrigerator, cupboard, sofa set, air conditioner) it is not necessary to give all these items dowry is given according to the choice of bride parent. Dowry now a days is given on the day of ring ceremony
Puja with groom
Ring ceremony start with some sort of puja that groom does with bride family member bride’s father and brother applies tilak (made of kesar, rice grains and flower petals) on the boy’s forehead. All the relatives and friends of the girl’s side come forward to bless the to be groom, offer sweets to him and give him cash/gifts. . Bride is not allowed to be part of this puja
‘chuni chadana’ ceremony
. The ‘chuni chadana’ ceremony is mostly clubbed with the ring ceremony and essentially conducted in the same manner as in a Punjabi wedding.. girl’s future mother-in-law places a red chunni on the girl’s head and gives her jewelry. Following this is a ritual in which the girl is fed boiled rice and milk by all the relatives of the boy that are present at the time. The ceremony comes to an end with the exchanging of rings between the prospective bride and groom..
Ring ceremony usually conducted in a banquet hall or a club. The bride is dressed in clothes and jewellery that have been presented to her by her future in-laws. She is also presented a red chunni by the sister/sister-in-law of her future husband. She receives more jewellery and gifts from her in-laws as part of the ceremony. Nowadays people also have arrangements of music and dance at the RING CEREMONY Bands and DJs are called upon to play music and all the people present dance away the evening to tunes being played. People cut cakes to celebrate the event.
cost of engagement ring
cost of ring depend upon choice ,you can take diamond or gold ring depending upon your budget.girls like diamond so i will prefer to take diamond ring for your newly bride .
Things to know for ring ceremony
1) Beautiful ring
2) Nice decorated plate for ring (I brought it from chandni chowk Delhi why not u try it)
3) Beautiful ethnic wear
4) dj to play a music
5 ) chunni (dupatta) chuni must be of red color
6) Don’t forget yummy yummy cake
7) Proper ring size of bride and groom
tilak thali(plate)
9) Don’t forget to call pandit for puja
10) Girl has to wear clothes n bangles, which her future mother in law gives her
India is country of colors and celebration so as Indian wedding too. Here another Indian wedding ceremony called haldi ceremony, like any other occasions are marked by a lot of customs and traditions. A number of rites and rituals are religiously followed to this day when Indian wedding ceremonies are held. When you will celebrate this ceremony you will got to know how this ceremony is named as haldi ceremony. This pre marriage event, which is held in both groom and bride places. Bride and groom are smeared in turmeric (haldi). its time for bride get more and more prettier. Traditionally speaking turmeric add beauty to bride and its is applied for complexion
The Haldi ceremony is organized a day before the actual wedding according to Indian tradition. haldi is applied to bride on her arms ,legs and face ,all married women give there blessing to bride .All friends are family are invited to this ceremony .traditionally bride has to wear yellow color clothes but now a days bride go for all the color except white and black. This ceremony is also known as Uptaan elsewhere in India. Traditionally this ceremony is followed so that bride can have sparkling skin on the day of marriage
The bride and the groom are barred from seeing each other after this ceremony till the marriage day. groom and bride wear very light clothes n jewelry as they are surrounded by all the guest they all apply haldi to both of them as there blessings
In the groom’s house female relatives of the groom apply Haldi on him and douse him with water this ritual is meant to sheer the groom of shyness. the yellow color and spice turmeric both are sign of holy and auspicious that is reason groom have to attend this ceremony
In this haldi ceremony both groom and bride houses are fully decorated .all the female member sing traditional song on haldi ceremony basically songs in which bride and groom are blessed by god ,there parents and all other family members. Overall it is a cleansing and purifying ceremony before the wedding takes place.
Haldi is turmeric powder which is mixed with rose water and sandalwood .mixture is applied on the arms and face to give good complexion and glowing skin .haldi ceremony can be held indoor outdoor bride and groom sit on stool or chair .yellow turmeric paste is first applied on bride head n then face by friends n family .oil is also put by the bride on her head during this ceremony. Haldi ceremony plate this fully decorated with flowers and good haldi bowl. haldi is also applied to bride mehendi so to give good color to mehendi .
Facts about HALDI CEREMONY
1) Most important haldi paste
2) Nice decorated puja thali
3) The bride and groom dress in their fineries
4) Good collection of wedding songs
5) 1 stool where groom and bride will sit
6) Haldi ceremony an be held outdoor as well as indoor
7) Bride should apply oil on her head
Haldi ceremony is held day before the marriage or in morning of marriage
9) Bride should wear very light jewelry
10) wedding house should nicely decorated
after haldi ceremony bride look like this
Any Special Wedding Occasions is a memorable in the lifetime of a person.
Every young boy and girl eagerly waits for this very special day when they will be treated like a king and a queen.
